! ! ! ! Celebrating Women's Day! ! ! ! !, Mamta Agarwal

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! ! ! ! Celebrating Women's Day! ! ! ! ! When God sat down to make a woman He gave her empathy love and compassion, By the time he finished with her He had no more left for the man. He gave her the ability to be a mother And nurture and take care of others. Slowly, on reflecting, it dawned on her She was being treated like a piece of furniture. At first she resigned to her fate Bore the indifference of her progeny and mate. Slowly she realised she didn't have to be a victim, And didn't have to be at the mercy or everyone's whims. She knew it was not going to be an easy battle to be won, Yet she took on everyone. She began to firmly express her views And waited to get her due. At first it didn't go down well with anyone, They wondered if she had been possessed by a demon. Men were not amused, In fact they were confused. We give her food, clothes and roof over her head, But the woman had empowered herself to earn her own bread, Car, house and thus managed to redeem, With her hard work her self esteem. She had made a tough choice, And finally had a voice Men tried very hard to keep her in her place And made sure she got no space. They were not at par, This is a question I have to ask the Lord. So there was a war, Did man pay a ransom to God? No matter what a woman achieves, She rarely receives The acknowledgement which she deserves. Yet she is able to preserve Her sanity and peace. And learn to live with dis-ease, Then her inner voice whispered to her, Don't resign just pamper His ego, and give him the credit For all the merit. Watch how his chest swells with pride And he might be on your side. Men actually never grow up, So from time to time pump Them up with a hug and a fancy meal. It will make them feel Like a king while you smile. It's not all that difficult to use a little guile. Silly women you haven't gone about it the right way, Use your soft, cunning, clever, gentle voice and say I am so proud to be wearing this wedding band. Chances are he will be eating out of your hand. You only stand to gain Even if you feign. So go ahead and do your own thing, Let him feel you owe him your sense of well being. Women's liberation never went down well with men So don't chant what women want while you are in your den While you laze around sipping your wine Don't be surprised if he sheepishly asks, 'will you like to go out to dine? ' God you made us smart Right from the start. It took us a long time to realise And become cool, calm and wise, To use enlightened manipulation With a subtle passion While having our own way So that he may Feel we were just following his command, And there was no reason to feel alarmed. If he says he wants to bond with his male friends, Smile and say go I have lots of errands There is no point to sulk and wait, Till he returns and opens the gate. Use this time to make sure You have a good time even if you just go for a pedicure. Indulge in your famous past times While sipping soda and lime. Chances are when you have both had your space, You won't have to face Cold vibes and bad temper, This will only hamper You from a good night sleep, While you helplessly weep While he sleeps and snores by your side, And you swallow your pride. Women love yourselves, and put youselves first But please you must Not voice it at all This way I promise you will have a ball. Mamta Agarwal

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BLOOD TYPE SHOW WHAT YOU ARE ေသြးက ေျပာတဲ့ သင့္အေၾကာင္း

BLOOD TYPE SHOW WHAT YOU ARE ေသြးက ေျပာတဲ့ သင့္အေၾကာင္း

         
  BLOOD GROUP O BLOOD GROUP A BLOOD GROUP B BLOOD GROUP AB
In a nutshell
အတြင္းစိတ္
Cannot stand people who hide the truth

အမွန္ကိုဖံုးကြယ္တတ္သူေတြကုိ သည္းမခံ
Pessimistic and too sensitive

အဆိုးျမင္၊ အထိမခံ
Cannot take orders easily ေျပာစကား လြယ္လြယ္လက္မခံ
Romantic and sentimental ခ်စ္တတ္ ခံစားတတ္

Basic Behavior အေျခခံအျပဳအမူ
Make objectives clear ရည္မွန္းခ်က္ ျဖစ္ေအာင္လုပ္တတ္
Careful about decision-making

ဆံုးျဖတ္ခ်က္ခ်ရာတြင္ ဂရုစိုက္တတ္
Make decisions fast ဆံုးျဖတ္ခ်က္ ျမန္ျမန္ခ်တတ္
Extremely practical အရမ္းလက္ေတြ႔က်တတ္

  Possess great deal of confidence ကိုယ့္ကိုယ္ကို ယံုၾကည္ခ်က္ ေကာင္းေကာင္းရိွတတ္
Make things clear in black and white

အျဖဴအမဲ ကြဲျပားရွင္းလင္း ေအာင္လုပ္တတ္
Can be flexible လိုက္ေလ်ာ ညီေထြရိွသည္
Excellent in analyses ခြဲျခားစိတ္ျဖမ္း တတ္

  Honest, optimistic and energetic ရိုးသား၊ အေကာင္းျမင္၊ ထက္ျမက္
Care too much about social rules and standards လူမွဳ စည္းကမ္း သတ္မွတ္ခ်က္ေတြကို အေလးထားတတ္
Do not care about rules စည္းမ်ဥ္းစည္းကမ္း ေတြ စိတ္မ၀င္စား
Give fair criticisms မွ်တစြာ ေ၀ဖန္တတ္

      Respect scientific and practical findings

သိပၸံပညာ နဲ႔ လက္ေတြ႔ ရွာေဖြေတြ႔ရိွမူေတြကို ေလးစား
Cannot decide when it comes to important issues

အေရးၾကီး ကိစၥၾကံဳလွ်င္ ဆံုးျဖတ္ခ်က္မခ်ႏိုင္

Tolerance သည္းခံႏိုင္စြမ္း
Strength and endurance depend on their aim

ရည္ရြယ္ခ်က္ေပၚမူတည္ျပီး အားထုတ္ႏိုင္ အၾကမ္းခံႏိုင္
High tolerance for physical or repetitive work

ထပ္ကာထပ္ကာလုပ္ရျခင္းနဲ႔ ကိုယ္ကာယသံုး လုပ္ရျခင္းေတြ အေပၚ ေကာင္းေကာင္း သည္းခံႏိုင္
Maintain the longest interest in what they do

သူတို႔လုပ္ေနတဲ့ အရာမွာ စိတ္၀င္စားမူကုိ ၾကာရွည္စြာ ထိန္းႏိုင္
Try to be hard-working ၾကိဳးစားပန္းစား လုပ္ကိုင္တတ္

  Give up easily if they find the job meaningless

သူတို႔အဓိပၸါယ္မရိွေတာ့ဘူး ထင္တာနဲ႔ အလြယ္တကူ လက္လႊတ္တတ္Cannot take changes easily

အေျပာင္းအလဲကို အလြယ္တကူ လက္မခံႏိုင္
Seem impatient စိတ္မရွည္ဘူး ထင္ရသည္
Tend to be impatient စိတ္မရွည္တတ္

    Lose interest in a hobby easily

၀ါသနာတခုကို အလြယ္တကူ စိတ္၀င္စားမူ ေလ်ာ့တတ္
Dislike repetitious work ထပ္ကာထပ္ကာ လုပ္ရတာေတြကုိ မၾကိဳက္
 
How do they see their future and past? Positive about the past, thus do not regret about the past

အတိတ္ကို အေကာင္းျမင္လို႔ ျပီးခဲ့တာေတြ အတြက္ ေနာင္တမရတတ္
Try hard to forget the past အတိတ္ကို လြယ္လြယ္ မေမ့တတ္
Hard to forget recent affairs, but able to forget past and memories

ေလာေလာလတ္လတ္ ကိစၥေတြကို လြယ္လြယ္ မေမ့ေပမဲ့ အတိတ္နဲ႔ အမွတ္တရေတြကိုေတာ့ ေမ့ႏိုင္
Sentimental about the past အတိတ္နဲ႔ ပက္သက္ျပီး ခံစားခ်က္ျပင္း

အတိတ္နဲ႔ အနာဂတ္အေပၚ သူတို႔ရဲ့သေဘာထား
Seek financial stability for the future

အနာဂတ္အတြက္ ဘဏၭာေရး တည္ျငိမ္ေအာင္ ျပင္ဆင္တတ္
Pessimistic about the future

ေရွ႔ေရးကို အဆိုးျမင္တတ္
  More concern about the immediate problems than anything else

အျခားဟာေတြထက္ လက္ရိွ ကိစၥကို ပိုအာရံုထား

How do they express their emotions? Usually stable and calm

အျမဲတမ္း တည္ျငိမ္ ေအးေဆး
Able to display cool outlook even though angry

စိတ္ဆုိးေနလွ်င္ေတာင္ ေအးေအးေဆးေဆး ေနျပႏိုင္
Expressive ခံစားခ်က္ကို ေဖၚျပတတ္
Sentimental

ခံစားခ်က္ ျပင္းထန္

ခံစားခ်က္ကို ျပတတ္ပံု
Sensitive towards sincerity

ရိုးသားျဖဴစင္မွဳနဲ႔ ပက္သက္ရင္ သည္းသည္းလွဳပ္ ခံစားတတ္
Short-tempered
စိတ္တိုတတ္
Cool and objective

ေအးေအးေဆးေဆး နဲ႔ အခ်က္က်က် ေဖၚျပတတ္
Usually cool and steady, but can get upset with an immediate, unsolved problem

ပံုမုန္ ေအးေဆး တည္ျငိမ္ေပမဲ့ အေရးေပၚ (သို႔) မရွင္းႏိုင္တဲ့ ျပသနာေတြ ၾကံဳရင္ စိတ္ညစ္တတ္

  Give frank, direct opinions ပြင့္လင္းျပီး တည့္တည့္ ေျပာတတ္
Take longer to heal a broken heart

အသည္းကြဲ ဒဏ္ရာ ျပန္ေကာင္းဖုိ႔ အခ်ိန္ၾကာတတ္
Although joke a lot, could actually be very shy

အေျပာင္အပ်က္ ေျပာတတ္ေပမဲ့ အရမ္းရွက္တတ္Can get moody easily စိတ္ အေျပာင္းအလဲျမန္တတ္

    Sensitive to others' opinions

သူတပါးရဲ့ ထင္ျမင္ ယူဆခ်က္ကို ထိခိုက္ ခံစားတတ္
Change moods like the weather ရာသီဥတုလိုပဲ စိတ္ေျပာင္းတတ္
 
      Cannot stop complaining when they are upset

မႏွစ္ျမိဳ႔တာေတြ႔လွ်င္ အျပစ္ေျပာမဆံုး
 
How do they work? Ability to concentrate vary from time to time, depending on aim
ရည္ရြယ္ခ်က္ ေပၚမူတည္ျပီး တခ်ိန္နဲ႔ တခ်ိန္ အာရံုစူးစိုက္ႏိုင္မူက ေျပာင္းလဲ
Perfectionist

 ျပည့္စံုသူ

Creative and possess new ideas

ဖန္တီးႏိုင္စြမ္း ရိွ.. စိတ္ကူးအသစ္ အဆန္း ပိုင္ဆိုင္
Able to handle a wide scope of jobs

အလုပ္နဲ႔ပက္သက္ျပိး က်ယ္က်ယ္ျပန္႔ျပန္႔ ကိုင္တြယ္ႏိုင္

လုပ္ရည္ကိုင္ရည္
Mostly prefer to lead

ဦးေဆာင္ခ်င္
Handle one thing at a time တခ်ိန္မွာကိစၥတခုသာကိုင္တြယ္
Cannot differentiate between work and hobby

၀ါသနာနဲ႔ အလုပ္ မခြဲျခားႏိုင္
Value hard work

အလုပ္ၾကိဳးစားျခင္းကို တန္ဖိုးထား

  Can overlook details အေသးအဖြဲေလးေတြကို ေက်ာ္ၾကည့္တတ္၊ သတိမထားမိတတ္
Work a line between work and personal affairs

ကုိယ္ေရးကိုယ္တာနဲ႔ အလုပ္ ကုိ ခြဲျခားႏိုင္
Cannot take orders

အမိန္႔ေပးတာ မခံႏိုင္
Quick in understanding

ျမန္ျမန္ နားလည္တတ္

    Highly responsible

တာ၀န္ယူႏိုင္
Do not hesitate to introduce innovative changes and are not worried about theirs criticisms
အသစ္အဆန္း အေျပာင္းအလဲကို မျငင္းဆန္တတ္၊ အမ်ားေ၀ဖန္မွဳကို လည္း မစိုးရိမ္တတ္
Not highly responsible and unable to follow-up on a project until its completion
ပေရာဂ်က္တခုအေပၚ ျပီးစီးသည္အထိ ေကာင္းေကာင္း ကိုင္တြယ္ တာ၀န္မယူႏိုင္

    Tend to choose hobbies which help them release stress
စိတ္ဖိစီးမူ ေျဖေဖ်ာက္ႏိုင္တဲ့ ၀ါသနာကို ေရြးခ်ယ္ႏိုင္
  Tend to be artistic in approach အႏုပညာဆန္ဆန္ ခ်ည္းကပ္တတ္